Category Archives: Mister Kapister

All about our wonderful young man, Tau.

On Feeding Our Neighbors

 

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If there is one thing that astounds me living in America, it’s that people go hungry, and that very few people seem to care. Did you know that 30 percent of all food ($48.3 billion worth) is thrown away each year in the United States?

All the farms, the supermarkets, the corner stores, the farmers’ markets, the restaurants and cafeterias, the dinner tables. One third of all that food is wasted. We are just not very good at getting it into the hands of people who need it.

A month or so ago, I started researching food pantries in my neighborhood to see if I could volunteer. I found only one in our area, an incorporated city of 50,000 people on the north-east outskirts of San Diego. Statistics say that one in six people in San Diego County do not have a stable food supply. By rough estimate, that means our neighborhood has one food pantry distributing groceries once a month, trying to meet the needs of a potential 9,000 people who might need it.

A few days later, I happened to be in my local Starbucks and saw an event poster for a day of service at Feeding America San Diego (FASD). So I signed up.

Quick Facts About Feeding America San Diego:

  • They distribute 23 million pounds of food annually in San Diego, serving 73,000 children, families and seniors each week.
  • FASD’s Farm2Kids, BackPack and School Pantry programs give kids basic food items plus three to five pounds of fresh produce to take home each week.
  • Their mobile pantries reach under-served communities, and FASD partners with food pantries, soup kitchens and shelters across San Diego county.
  • Every dollar donated to FASD results in six meals. SIX!

Two Saturdays ago, Tau and I joined around 600 volunteers, mostly Starbucks employees, at FASD’s Mira Mesa warehouse. We worked on a team that sorted green apples, boxing them up for distribution. Our group also stripped the slightly moldy outer leaves off about 300 heads of cabbage and crated those too. Other teams stuffed backpacks, labeled cans and measured out family-sized packets of breakfast cereal from the mega packs that FASD purchases with donated funds.

Tau cleaning cabbages

During the three two-hour shifts organized for that day, volunteers prepared the equivalent of 31,280 meals, which will be delivered to our community. This organization is making a dent in hunger in our city, and I will definitely be volunteering again.

As for my kid, he learned in a very real way that not all children know where their next meal is coming from. He learned that food needs to be tediously hand sorted and distributed for people to eat. And he learned that both green apples (his favorite fruit) and cabbage (which he had successfully avoided up to that point) were key to our neighbors not going hungry.

God’s joke on us? That evening we got home to a meal prepared by Dave — a sumptuous one-pot pork dish with green apples and sauerkraut!

Surf Is Totally Up!


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On our recent trip up to Ojai, just north west of LA, Tau was keen to try surfing, mostly because the two older kids that we were vacationing with were very eager to take lessons.

Dave doesn’t surf and my sense of balance is dodgy at best, so we didn’t have great expectations. Instead, I was just impressed that Tau was prepared to try something so out of his comfort zone.

And whaddya know, but that boy totally surfed like a little grommet. Not quite a pro, but he certainly got up on that board and rode the waves!

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He never fails to impress me. Also, have you ever seen a kid look so cute in a wetsuit?

Orange and White Belt

 

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This boy has been doing taekwondo for a few months now, and he’s loving it.

He finally accumulated enough classes and stripes (for various achievements) that he was able to test for his first colored belt, the orange and white.

And he did it!

Tau, we’re so proud of the focus and hard work you put in to reach your goal! ATA!

Orange and White Belt

One Community: July!

 

This month, I’m joining One Community, a monthly photo project in which bloggers take pictures of their homes and communities with a theme in mind. The theme varies by month, and the goal is to both showcase similarities and differences in our communities worldwide! Here goes!

Yesterday Tau and I visited the annual Old Fashioned Fourth of July in our community park. The park is popular for the volunteer-run railway that runs the perimeter of the park, a favorite of boys, young and old. On holidays like the Fourth, they gussy up the steam engine and its open carriages with red, white and blue bunting, and stage a real-life ambush with period-costumed outlaws, who hold up the train, smoking guns and all. It’s great fun.

Unfortunately, my camera battery died shortly after we arrived, so I have few pictures and none really of the steam train in action. But you’ll get the idea — hot summer temps mean seeking out shade, grabbing a snow cone, meeting a president or two, and admiring old cars and beautiful patriotic quilts. I’ve added a set to Flickr with rest of the pictures I took.

Nostalgia – an old Ford, restored to prime condition, gleaming in the sun.

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Season – finding a cool spot in the grassy shade, snow cone in hand!

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Celebrate – the train station, festooned!

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Red, White and Blue – “Mom, we shoulda gotten two cotton candies for each of us!”

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And because I can’t resist sharing, a bonus picture! My son meeting his favorite president.

Tau with Abe Lincoln

Looking forward to seeing everyone else’s July pics!

One Community participants include:

Sarah is a life-long Missourian who shares her home with her husband, one (soon to be 2) son(s), and an old grumpy dachshund. Like every good Midwesterner, she can (and will) talk to you at length about the weather. Sarah blogs at http://www.beautyschooldropout.net.

Colleen lives with her handsome hubster and two feisty felines in Portland, Oregon. She loves rain and sun (in that order), words and pictures, and chatting up the neighbors. She blogs at: http://www.underaredroof.com

Rebekah lives in Kilkenny, Ireland with her husband. An American by birth, she’s discovering what it means to be an expat on the Emerald Isle. She blogs at: http://www.honeysucklelife.com

Kara is a cheerful nerd living in downtown Phoenix, AZ with her law-studying husband and an anxious pound puppy. She works full time in the mental health field but in her off time enjoys sunshine, great food and the occasional craft beer. She blogs at: http://www.sunshine-cupcakes.com

Teresa lives in Massachusetts with her husband, college aged daughter and two crazy cats. She is a creative spirit who tries to find the lesson, blessing and humor in everything and she blogs at http://laughteramongtears.blogspot.com/

Kelli lives in New Jersey with her dog, Willie Nelson Mandela, and her boyfriend, Dutch. A native Arizonan, she is enamored by the lush landscape, and looking to build community. She is a novelist, public health advocate and United Methodist. She blogs at: http://www.africankelli.com

Stephanie is a lifelong Wyomingite with ranch girl roots. She has her own marketing and graphic design business and in her free time, she enjoys knitting, fishing with her boyfriend, and team roping. She blogs at: http://www.nowicanseethemoon.co

Eduarda is a curious, visual creature who believes all pictures tell a story. She hails from Mozambique, via Portugal and NJ, and now is desert rate living with her husband and two teenage daughters in Chandler, AZ. She blogs at: http://of-blue.blogspot.com/

Once Apouon a Time

 

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Fantasy Land – by Tau

Once apouon a time the horses saw a mean, red, and big horntail. His name was Drago. Uh oh seid the horses. Drago is go ing to eat us. Quick get in the castel said the oldest horse. So they did. We need to teach him a lesson seid most of the horses. Lets run toward him and scare him away. So they did it and Drago never came back.

The end.

 

Yarmulke Deja Vu



I turned around the other day in the kitchen to see this:

Hmn … where have I seen Tupperware Yarmulke Baby before?

Oh right! Same kitchen, different baby!


Getting His Climb On!



Tau took a few of his friends rock climbing for his birthday. Fun!

Click through for all the pictures on Flickr!

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Tau Turns Seven

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Save-My-T-Shirt Pillow



Tau’s school is part of the No Excuses University Network, an organization that promotes college awareness and readiness at elementary, middle and high schools across the US.

Each class  at his school adopts a different college — usually the alma mater of the teacher — and they learn all about their school and its sports teams throughout the year. Every Monday the kids wear their college spirit tees.

Well, Tau’s UCLA Bruins shirt from last year was getting a bit snug, so I suggested he make a pillow out of it.  It’s been a while since we worked on anything from the Sewing School book, but this project was a hit!

I can see us making a Save-My-T-Shirt pillow each year!

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Africa Close to the Heart

 

Dear Auntie Kelli,

We love our t-shirts. Thank you!

Shirt from Africankelli

Tee from Auntie Kelli

Love,
Tau and Maceo
xx

Fabric-by-Fabric Sew Along: Chic Carryall

 

The end of the school year, and Tau has had a phenomenal teacher, who has worked so unbelievably hard with us to keep Tau on track and learning well this year. Whip-smart as he is, that boy’s brain is too fast and detour-prone for his own good.

They should change the time-worn phrase from the “patience of Job” to the “patience of Mrs. Crow.”

For this month’s Fabric-by-Fabric One Yard Wonders sew  along, I chose the Chic Carryall as a thank-you gift for Mrs. Crow. And considering how hard she has worked with Tau on writing, I thought it would be special to personalize the bag with Tau’s handwriting.

No, he did not hand stitch it. But I did get him to write his teacher’s name on the fabric using one of those wash-off temporary sewing markers, and then stitched over his lettering. I also had him add a personal message on the pocket inside the bag: Love Tau xxx.

Filled with some summer magazines, I think she’ll love it, and I hope she’ll use it. Ladies and gents, the Chic Carryall!

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Left Brain Veers Right

Every now and then, all the planets align, hell freezes over, and the pigs take flight. When our little left-brainer asks to do an art project.

Not just any art project mind you. We had to buy a $1 birdhouse at the art store and paint it because, he tells me, the old one, which he painted with his grandparents, is not looking so good anymore.

And painting is all about covering the surface with paint. Little to do with decoration. Once you have covered every inch of wood with paint, your job is done, and the materials can all go away, until the next time.

Sewing School: Sweet Dreams Mask



Recently, I ordered a copy of Sewing School: 21 Sewing Projects Kids Will Love to Make. Tau has shown interest whenever I’m sewing, so I thought it might be fun to work through a few of the projects in this book.

He flipped through the book when it arrived. “This one! I wanna make THIS one!”

We cut out the pattern piece, he pinned and cut out the felt and liner fabric, and then the fun with needle and thread began. Tau got a kick out of sewing big, red Xs to fasten the elastic to the mask. He also enjoyed learning how to do a running stitch—for the first five or so stitches. He then lost interest (he’d now learned how to sew after all), and so we resorted to you-do-ten-stitches-I-do-ten-stitches to get the rest done.

Instead of tediously sewing on the random geometric shapes he’d cut out of blue felt, we decided to glue them on with fabric glue.

One boy-sewn sleep mask, which he calls his iPad (eye pad?) by the way. He loves sleeping with it!



Martin Loofah King Jr


I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

– Martin Luther King Jr., I Have a Dream, 1963.

Last week, we celebrated Martin Luther King Jr day here in the US.

Now that Tau is in first grade, he is doing proper social studies curriculum, and came home with various projects on the theme of Martin “Loofah” King. Yes, we are still not bothering much to say our tee-aches!

I guess I didn’t give Tau enough credit. Didn’t expect him to grasp US history and race relations at such a tender age.

But all we needed to ask was, “Who was Martin Luther King?” And we got a very earnest account of how the people with white skin used to not allow the people with dark skin to eat in the restaurants or ride in the front of the buses. “And they all said, ‘You GO TO THE BACK of the bus!'”

And how Dr. Martin Luther King said that was not right and he made it change, so that everyone could sit anywhere they wanted on the bus.

Dave posed this question. “So, if we lived back then, Tau, and we went to Chicken Pie Diner for dinner with your brother, would they let us in?”

“You and me and Mom could go in … but Maceo would have to stay outside.”

“How do you think that would make him feel?”

“He would just cry and cry in his carseat outside … because he doesn’t like to be left alone.”

Now, it hits home.