Probably

May 4, 2008 · 4 Comments

Boy in a box

These days, Dave and I spend our time with Tau either trying to keep our wits about us or shaking our heads in disbelief. Three recent conversations …

1

Lying with Tau at bedtime, as he rearranges his lions. “Uh … I needa my dog!”

“Dog isn’t here, honey. Hold this lion.”

“I. NEEDA. MY. DOOOOOOOOG!”

Sigh. Knowing full well that Dog is on the back seat of my car, I go the path of least resistance: “I don’t know where it is.”

Long silence. “Probably is downstairs. Probably is inna kitchen. Or probably is inna garage!”

Yes. Probably.

2

And we are now in love with Band-aids. Whenever we fall, we NEEDA a band-aid.

The other day, after not listening and not watching where he was going, he trips, fall and bumps his right shin.

“Waaaaaaaaaaa!” Deep breath. “Waaaaaaaaaa! I NEEDA Band-aid!”

Unsympathetic mother: “Come here, lemme see. No, you don’t need a Band-aid. There’s no BLOOD. We only do Band-aids for BLOOD in this house!”

3

And we are the Ruler Supreme of last-ditch attempts not to have to go to sleep — especially where we are EXHAUSTED and should have been asleep ages ago.

Lying in the dark. “Mommy?”

“Yes, Tau.”

“My diaper is coming loose.”

When did he learn loose? “No it’s not. I just put a new one on.”

“It IS! Is coming loose.”

“Lemme see.” Flip him on his back, zip down his PJs to check the velcro and make sure the fit is right and straight. “No it’s not loose.” Ziiiiip! “Come, let’s tuck you in.”

“Mommy? My diaper is giving me owie.”

Sigh. “Really?”

“No.”

I can hear him grinning in the dark. “OK. Go to sleep now.”

“Mommy? I need to go potty.”

“No you don’t. You need to go to sleep.”

“I NEED to go POTTY!” Silence. “I. NEED. TO. GO POTTEEEE!!!”

“OK. Let’s go potty.”

(And, yes. He really did need to go potty.)

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Kid Art Auction for Earth Day 2008

April 12, 2008 · 2 Comments

Kid Art Auction for Earth Day 2008

Aimee has launched the very first Kid Art Auction for Earth Day 2008.

How does it work? Your kid makes art. You post it to the Kid Art Auction Flickr pool. And you tell all you know about it so that they can go and bid on the lovely pieces our kids have made. When bidding closes, the parent ships the art to the highest bidder. Simple and fun, yes? All proceeds go to We Can Solve It, a project from the Alliance for Climate Protection.  

Family overseas, sorry, but the bidding is only open to those in North America. But friends with kids under 17 in Canada and the US? Get those kiddie fingers busy.

Here is Tau’s first effort with scissors, markers and glue. Isn’t Happypillar sweet?

Happypillar by Tau

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A Mother After My Own Heart

April 10, 2008 · No Comments

Another reason I love Dooce. She knows the power of a good bribe. See the Elephant Clips post below the lovely photo.

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The Hood

April 6, 2008 · 2 Comments

Our Hood

I took Tau to the park to ride the train yesterday and took a few snaps along the way.

Thought I’d post them for the family who haven’t had the chance to visit. They are in our La Casa set on Flickr.

Enjoy!

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Probably a Genetic Marker for This

March 28, 2008 · 5 Comments

Today I bought Tau his first set of kiddie scissors.  We spent lots of time practicing and when I was confident he understood how to cut the paper and not his fingers, I let him go at it.

So I’m in the kitchen and I hear mutter, mutter, mutter coming from around the corner.

“What’s that Tau?”

“I cutta the carpet!”

The cream nouveau shag that looks like mini-noodles. Could have bet big money on that.

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Easter at Home

March 24, 2008 · 2 Comments

Easter pics on Flickr

We spent Easter Sunday yesterday with Dave’s sister Trish, her husband Bruce and family. Tau loves haves having his teenage cousins Greg and Jess around to play soccer with him and do Thomas the Tank puzzles (thrilling for them, I’m sure!).

It was so hot here that the Easter Bunny had to drop his eggs off very quickly after brunch and we ran out and find them before they melted into globby, gooey little messes.

Pics are over at Flickr. Enjoy!

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The Way We Start the Day

March 10, 2008 · 2 Comments

This morning I woke Tau up by opening his blinds, the sun streaming in on his bed.

“C’mon sleepyhead. Time to get up.”

Sits up, fuzzyheaded, rubbing his eyes and squinting up at the light. “Iz-zat Mr. Golden Sun?”

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All Downhill From Here, Huh?

March 7, 2008 · No Comments

40th on Flickr

I don’t believe it! I’m standing by the Greek philosopher Heraclitus who said, “The road uphill and the road downhill are one and the same!”

We had a wonderful time in Palm Springs for my 40th birthday this past weekend. Dave rented a gorgeous place with a pool and a hot tub, and we spent the weekend relaxing, sleeping in, going for coffee and yes, the three of us ate a whole birthday cake! It was mostly fruit and sponge cake, or so I keep telling myself.

Also, I have been wanting to buy a digital SLR camera for a long time now and with birthday contributions from various family members (thanks again all!), I was able to order my Canon Rebel XTi and a 50mm lens last week. It arrived in time to take away with us.

Thanks for your lovely cards, calls and flowers all!

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Memories of Uncle AJ

February 17, 2008 · 2 Comments

Mitch, Tau and AJ

 

Mitch, Tau and AJ at Omaha Beach House

It amazes us that even after two months back from New Zealand, Tau still raises things that we thought he would have long forgotten.

When we catch and hold his swing in mid-flight at the playground, he knows that saying “AJ’s password” (”Love ya, AJ”) is the only way to get the swing going again. He also remembers that the “AJ hug” requires a “tap, tap” of his hand on our backs.

The third thing he “remembers” cracks me up: I recently told him on the way home from daycare that Mommy would be home when we got there. “What are you going to say to Mommy when you see her?” I asked. His response? ” Hello gorgeous!” I almost drove the car off the road. He tells me AJ taught him this.

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Brr … and Time to Catch Up!

February 15, 2008 · 3 Comments

Cold

So as I mentioned, most of my blogging energy is going into my new site (those of you who haven’t seen it, let me know and I’ll send you the URL). That means not much nobaddays-ing these days.

But I did want to touch base on a couple points.

  1. It snowed in San Diego County yesterday. Yes. Snowed. And it was cold and windy. I had to wear a sweater. And run to my car. And turn on the heat. Yuk!
  2. This week I started a three-month tech-writing contract with a small software company here in San Diego. For the techies: They develop a media-hosting/social-networking platform that fits seamlessly into their customers’ websites. Think YouTube but higher-quality and for the corporate media market. Online newspaper and TV sites. That sort of thing. I’ll be documenting their admin tool. Love being at a small start up again … fun product, fun people. And I really love that I’m only working four days a week and 20 minutes from home!
  3. Dave and I celebrated our seventeenth anniversary last week. See pics of the yummy dinner I made on Flickr to the right.
  4. And yes, my fortieth is coming up this leap year’s day. We plan to be away that weekend, so family if we could talk the weekend before or after, that would be grand.
  5. I hoped to post about New Zealand the whole month of January but didn’t get around to doing that, did I? Dave stepped in admirably with posts on wine and coffee but I had planned to tell you all about our travels there. So many posts still sitting on the shelves of my mind. Time to clear them out but with the new job and a bunch of other things I want to get done around the house in Feb and March, I don’t think that’s going to happen. So please make do with taking another look at our pics. I think they capture just how lovely and relaxing our visit was!
  6. Finally, belated happy Valentine’s Day everyone! We kinda skip over it here at Casa Nobaddays but Tau apparently did quite well — he came home with a goodie bag stuffed with candy and cards from his classmates. All along the lines of this one last year.

That’s all she wrote for now!

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Oh The Bean!

February 3, 2008 · 2 Comments

It was a very good cup!

Sticking with the “quality is more the norm than the exception” theme from my Savvie posting, Sue asked me to blog about the coffee in New Zealand.

Shortly after arriving in Auckland, I let AJ and our newly introduced sister-in-law Jules know that I was partial to good coffee. Turns out they are too. This gave AJ and Jules every opportunity to show off their local stomping grounds, starting with the coffee shop in their local Warehouse outlet.

AJ cringed with embarrassment. His sister and brother-in-law arrive from the US — home of Starbucks, Peets and Seattle’s Best — and the first coffee shop we frequent in Auckland is at the Warehouse! Later that afternoon AJ demonstrated his own perfected latte-making skills. Their coffee of choice is Gravity because, as the ad goes …

Gravity Coffee Billboard

 
Tiny Mairangi Bay Village, where AJ and Jules live, has about 30 shops ranging from a FoodTown to a yoga studio to upscale dress shops and everything in between. Coffee can be ordered in at least six restaurants and cafes in the village, such is the love affair locals have with their Joe. Much as in the US/Canada Pacific Northwest, coffee is intricately woven into the Kiwi lifestyle. Coffee shops are filled with folks reading the paper or magazines, working on laptops, coffee-moms meeting girlfriends for a morning latte after walking the kids to school, toddler and dog in tow, business folks brokering deals in suits and the occasional tourist contentedly taking it all, trying desperately to learn the local coffee lingo:

  • Skinny latte = Latte made with skim milk
  • Long black = What we call an Americano, served without milk or cream
  • Long black with milk on the side = Americano with milk on the side (the closest to what we drink here in the US)
  • Short black = Espresso

Some shops we visited, like The Red Beret in Motueka and Zest in Nelson, are so busy that customers find themselves cleaning their own tables in order to be seated. Once seated, the patron can then sit back with their long-black-with-milk-on-the-side and pastry, only to politely have to stand a few seconds later to let a new mom pass with her pram. An aside: the prams in NZ are generally larger than most Kiwi cars, which makes for a tight squeeze in coffee shops.

We found the Kiwi roast of choice to be medium-dark and espresso shots were always extremely flavourful. None of the “this espresso’s so weak I can see my mother-in-law through it” shots that our friends at Starbucks have become really famous for. The kind where the espresso shots are no longer “pulled” by hand but triggered into action by the cash register/computer and then shot off by an automated espresso machine.

Free puppy

Sign at Mariposa Palms Nursery and Cafe

Two really unique coffee destinations that AJ and Jules took us to were Morris and James Pottery & Tileworks & Mariposa Palms — both in Matakana, an hour north of Auckland. The Morris and James cafe sits in the courtyard outside the sales center for their very unique and beautiful pottery. And Mariposa Palms cafe is nestled under the palms sold at their plant nursery. In addition to pairing a serene setting with superb coffee, Mariposa also offers free puppies and espresso to unruly children.

Even though we were fortunate enough to frequent some very memorable coffee shops throughout our time in NZ, it is this story that I like to tell to highlight just how good Kiwi coffee is. When we were staying up in Paihia, Sue, Tau and I drove out to Matauri Bay for a morning on the beach. After leaving the main road, the rural drive passes more livestock than homes and finally makes it way up and past the Matauri General Store before the steep road down into the bay.

Being low on supplies, we decided to stop and pick up something for lunch. We then realized that while one half of the very humble looking general store was exactly that, the other half was the local bar. On the counter of the bar sat a very high-end espresso maker. I was floored. Beer, wine and coffee - the Kiwis know a thing or two. After ordering lunch at the bar, we sat out back in the sunshine and drank our long-black-with-milk-on-the-side and ate our meat pies (Kiwi meat pies really ought to be the subject of an entirely separate post). Here in the middle of very rural New Zealand, miles from the nearest town, the owner knocked out a couple coffees so smooth and rich that they rivalled any other cup we tasted in urban NZ or the US for that matter.

Aerial View of Matauri Bay

Aerial View of Matauri Bay

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Savvie

January 29, 2008 · 4 Comments

NZ Wine

Those of you that know me, know that I’m partial to white wine. Those of you that know me particularly well, know that I am extremely partial to Riesling and Gewürztraminer. Hi. Dave here.

Living in California, a state that swirls and swallows vast quantities of Chardonnay and Cabernet Sauvignon, I’m seen as somewhat of a wino odd-ball. In San Diego, the Riesling and Gewürztraminer sections are usually banished to the far corners of most wine stores. It’s almost as if you have to ask for them in a soft muted voice.

And then there are those (mostly men) who would accuse me of being as fruity as the wines I like, not realizing that when the occasions calls for it, I’m as appreciative of a smooth Pinot Noir or an earthy Syrah or — heaven forbid — a wheat beer or a lager.

We arrived in New Zealand on a Thursday morning after the overnight flight. By the afternoon I’d located and ventured into the local wine shop, Mairangi Bay Wines. By Friday evening, Sue and I left Tau with his cousins and aunt and ventured back down to MB Wines for some wine tasting.

My initial impression remained constant throughout our time in New Zealand. In the words of one great wine critic and educator: New Zealand makes the best New Zealand wines. They are not Californian or German or Australian or Italian. Kiwis have come to understand the potential of their land in producing truly excellent wines.

Jules Taylor

Jules Taylor

That Friday night, we discovered Jules Taylor Marlborough Sauvignon Blanc 2007, which received an Air New Zealand Elite Gold medal. Two bottles made it back to California and one has already been consumed. Sue Courtney, the wine blogger describes this wine as: Juicy, vibrant and punchy with musk, sweat pea and sweet citrus aromas and a grassy, herbaceous undercurrent to the tropical fruit, lime and grapefruit flavours. Intense and zesty with a powerfully long finish and fabulous length. I don’t get all these nuances of flavors. I just really like it a lot.

Not a bad start to enjoying Sauvignon Blancs, seeing as I’d always associated them with a strange, harsh, grassy aftertaste, therefore avoiding them completely. The following evenings and sometimes early afternoons, we delved into sampling a number of excellent savvies (as New Zealanders affectionately call them). Kiwis are fiercely proud of their country, their culture and their produce and wines. They have every right to be.

Tasman Village Cottage

Early the next week, we flew from Auckland to Nelson on the northern tip of the South Island and rented a cottage in Tasman. Neudorf Riesling and two websites (Nelson Tourism and Nelson Wine Art) had convinced me that a trip to the area would be rewarding. You gotta love the power of the Internet.

I was also very much interested in exploring a smaller, more boutiquey wine region that is well know for crafting some of New Zealand’s finest aromatics. The Neudorf Rieslings I’d purchased in San Diego bore witness to this. Accommodation at the Tasman Village Cottage was also booked based on the advertised “… just relax with a bottle of wine from the adjoining Blackenbrook vineyard and make the most of having a private and spacious place to stay.”

Blackenbrook Sauvignon Blanc

This didn’t take much convincing as the evening we arrived, we discovered another savvie gem: Blackenbrook Vineyard Nelson Sauvignon Blanc 2007. Sue Courtney describes this as: Light golden coloured with powerful aromas and flavours of citrus, apple and nectarine with underlying gooseberry and tropical fruit. Juicy and flavoursome with an amazingly long finish where hints of tobacco, tomato stalk and capsicum emerge. A wine of richness and power with a wonderful texture, bright acidity and balance all the way through. A truly remarkable Nelson Sauvignon Blanc.

Again, I don’t get the hints of tobacco, tomato stalk and capsicum references because it’s been a long time since I experimented with any tobacco products. I also believe that the tomato plant itself is poisonous and for those of you that don’t know a capsicum is a bell pepper! Again, I would just say, I liked it a lot.

Note that this wine was good enough to get my red-wine-loving-wife to go, “Mmmmm.” And I should note that this wine was awarded Gold and Trophy for Best Sauvignon Blanc at the 2007 New Zealand International Wine Show. Not bad for a Savvie produced in Tasman’s clay soils!

Blackenbrook was a wonderful jumping off point for our time in Tasman. It was close enough to walk Tau up to see the tractors at work, past the fields of grazing sheep. We also managed quick trips to Kahurangi Estate and Neudorf with our two-year-old who saw very little purpose in the activities, regardless of the number of nearby sheep or horses.

If Blackenbrook was the jumping off point, it also signaled the end to our stay. Our hosts, Cameron and Maria, had arranged for me to meet with the Blackenbrook wine maker Daniel Schwarzenbach for 30 or so minutes. I was eager to meet the man behind the wine we’d been consuming all week long, and valued the opportunity to meet Daniel one-on-one. Our 30 minute chat spilled over 2 hours as he walked me around his gravity-fed winery, answering tens of probably naive or stupid questions and giving me insights into the wine industry that I otherwise would probably never have gained.

Back in Auckland, I ventured into the local grocery store to see shelves filled with Riesling, Gewürztraminer and Pinot Gris alongside the Pinot Noir and Savignon Blanc. Clearly in NZ a few other folks have as much an appreciation of these varietals as myself. My lasting impressions of New Zealand can also be said about the wine - quality is more the norm than the exception.

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Haka Face

January 26, 2008 · 2 Comments

Haka Face

Tau has some pretty strong memories of New Zealand.

“Who did we visit in New Zealand, Tau?”

AJ-Julie … Jaimey-Mitch?”

“And what was the dog’s name?”

“JAPPA!” (their chocolate lab, Jasper)

“And the cats?”

“Tormie and ‘fasa?” (the Persians, Storm and Mufasa)

“And the other dogs we saw in Nelson? Sam and?”

“Sam ‘n ZOE!”

And on the subject of indigenous culture …

“And what did the ladies do with their hands at the dancing?”

This one takes a bit of coaxing but eventually he’ll do the soft hand vibrations Maori women do when they dance and sing, and then elaborate. “An’ the ladies … dancing with the white balls … and the sticks …” he tells us.

Yes, the ladies danced with the white balls and sticks. He sat on AJ’s lap — motionless, just soaking it all in — the full half hour of the performance.

“And what about haka, Tau?”

Sticks out his tongue and bugs out his eyes … “WHAAAA!” I tried to get a good picture but he didn’t want to perform for the camera!

The haka is a definite favorite on You Tube at the moment. The other day, Dave caught him, wandering around the house, muttering Ka Mate under his breath.

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Finally … Reason!

January 25, 2008 · 1 Comment

Turtle

Getting out of the car this morning at daycare.

“I wanna take turtle in?”

“Hmn. I don’t think so.”

“Wanna take turtle IN.”

“If you take turtle in, all the other kids will want to play with him.”

Silence.

“You want the other kids to play with turtle?”

Brief pause. “Yup.”

“You want the other kids to play with turtle? If you leave him in the car, right here on your seat, then he’ll be waiting for you when I come to pick you up. And then you can hold him in your carseat.”

Scrambling out, placing turtle in the bucket of his seat. “Bye turtle …”

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Number Three?

January 18, 2008 · 4 Comments

We wouldn’t normally post the contents of our kid’s nappy on the Internet but this has to be seen to be believed.

When we got home today from daycare, I checked his diaper by peering down the back of it, only to see a few small wood chips.

The two-year-old class playground at daycare has a fabulous pit filled with wood chips and diggers and dump trucks and such. Tau often comes home with chips in his hoodie or pockets.

So I thought to myself, “Hmn. That can’t be very comfy. Better change him, or at least remove the offending particles.” And opened the diaper to find …

diaperbl.jpg
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